Clothes

“Maybe you can eventually find clothes that fit and feel comfortable,” my new dietitian says. “Clothes that feel gender-affirming and body-affirming, and that you don’t have to hide in. Maybe you can find clothes that make you feel like you.” Clothes that make me feel good about my appearance? I don’t see how that’s possible. […]

Societal Expectations

Some people have very strong beliefs about gender presentation. To them, you must choose one of their two gender options to be acceptable. You must wear (and not wear) certain things to be acceptable to them, based on that gender. I actively fight that. I want to be seen as me, able to express myself […]